Monday, 14 March 2011 10:47

Steak and Blow Job Day

Written by Jowanna Lewis

Good morning everyone. 

Again it is time to celebrate one of the most under-celebrated holidays of the year (other than grandparents day)... Steak and Blow Job Day!  For those of you who are totally confused right now Steak and BJ day is the male equivalent to Valentine's Day.  So the way I see it... If your girl made a big fuss over Valentine's Day then you should make a big fuss over today.  Anyway, I found a great steak recipe and a couple of tips for you ladies and gentlemen... Enjoy the day (and don't forget to share your stories).

 

Okay, it’s easier to give a blow job if the guy’s already hard. If he’s not, stroke him until he’s hard and then go down on him. The first few mouth movements should be soft, sort of ease into it. If you don’t, he can get overly sensitive right away and we don’t want that.

First, swirl your tongue over the head, especially where the head meets the shaft, but don’t put too much pressure into it, use a “soft tongue”. After about 20 seconds of doing this, plunge down and take him as deep into your throat as you can, stiffening your tongue so it slides down the underside of the shaft.

While he’s as far down your throat as you’re comfortable with, move your tongue up and down the shaft, stick your tongue out as far as you can to lick the base of the penis (if you can get it that far) or his balls.

When you come back up, rapidly wiggle your tongue back and forth along the base. Repeat this whole process a few times and try not to giggle as he gasps every time you deep throat, try to do that part when you think he’s not expecting it so he’ll begin to anticipate it.

Remember while doing this that you have two hands as well as a mouth. Stroke his balls while you’re tonguing the head of his dick. Playing with the balls while giving head is also a good way of figuring out what he likes if your boy’s not very vocal. Typically the balls will sort of scrunch up a bit when something feels particularly good and they’ll scrunch up completely when he’s about to cum.

If you do the above techniques, he’s going to last longer usually, so if you’re getting tired or “cocksucker’s cramp” you might want to speed things up by doing the age old “bobbing” method. Guys seem to vary on their appreciation of the act because girls seem to go at it much too fast. I’ve found that if you go up and down the shaft with your mouth, it’s good practice to make ample use of your tongue at the same time by wiggling it back and forth. Also, instead of the standard up and down movement, really get into it and turn your head from side to side a bit, sort of like a corkscrew motion.

If you’re doing this in the light, make sure you look up at him a few times while you’re sucking him off because guys seem to really be into that.

 

Ingredients

  • 1/2 cup butter
  • 2 teaspoons garlic powder
  • 4 cloves garlic, minced
  • 4 pounds beef top sirloin steaks
  • salt and pepper to taste

Directions

  1. Preheat an outdoor grill for high heat.
  2. In a small saucepan, melt butter over medium-low heat with garlic powder and minced garlic. Set aside.
  3. Sprinkle both sides of each steak with salt and pepper.
  4. Grill steaks 4 to 5 minutes per side, or to desired doneness. When done, transfer to warmed plates. Brush tops liberally with garlic butter, and allow to rest for 2 to 3 minutes before serving.
Tuesday, 11 January 2011 16:20

CM Hurt workshop

Every year people lie to themselves and make New Year's resolution.  Most tend to stick with the typical stop drinking, smoking, work out more... By the later half of January these ridiculous promises to ourselves are broken.  A few years ago I asked someone what their New Year's resolution was and he told me something that made a lot of sense.  He said "Any real change worth making is going to take longer than a year, so why kid yourself."  Since then I have stopped making resolutions.  Instead I make lists of things I hope to accomplish.  This year at the top of my list was to attend the CM Hurt workshop series.

For those of you unfamiliar with the workshop, it is a year long commitment to learning about different aspects of the BDSM community.  I have always been interested in this workshop but due to time constraints I have been unable to attend.  So for the first time there was no excuse for me not to attend.

I got to the workshop with enough time to debate not going inside for about five minutes (I sat in my car like a kid going to the first day of school).  After my mild panic attack I was actually excited to go to class.  Everyone there was incredibly friendly and supportive, and Ms. Cynthia was very knowledgeable, welcoming, and funny.

We each had an opportunity to list the things that we would like to learn about and the topics will be covered based on popularity.   My personal picks included bondage, electro play, interrogation and some other things.  This month’s focus was on getting acquainted, as well as covering safety and cleanliness (which was great because I am OCD when it comes to being clean).  I look forward to seeing what new adventures this workshop opens up for me.

I will let you know what mischief I manage to get myself into next month.  Till then…

During the current economic downturn its great to see at least one country is getting creative with ways to get out of debt.  I would love to see the US try to pass something list this (I guess they would have to legalize prostitution first). 

BERLIN (Reuters Life!) – Challenged with a 100 million euro ($133 million) deficit, one western German city has introduced a day tax on prostitutes to help whittle down its budget gap.

The new "pleasure tax" requires prostitutes in Dortmund to purchase a 6 euro "day ticket" for each day they work, or face a potential fine. The city estimates that the new tax will add some 750,000 euros to its coffers each year.

"Dortmund has financial problems like many cities in Germany," city spokesman Michael Meinders told Reuters. "We considered several sex taxes but this was the most practical proposal."

The new tax went into effect in August but the day tickets have not been available until this week.

An alternative proposal was to charge a 1 or 2 euro fee to anyone entering Dortmund's red-light district, but this idea got little political support, Meinders said.

Such taxes are not unusual in Germany where prostitution is legal and sex workers must pay tax on their income. Cologne introduced a 150 euro "pleasure tax" on sex workers in 2004 and later added a 6 euro day tax option for part-time prostitutes.

Sunday, 10 October 2010 23:41

Kurtz Contract

Written by Jowanna Lewis

In my interview with Kurtz from Frausun we discussed the contract he had between him and Paloma (his slave).  I have attached a copy of their contract for all those interested.  Definitely worth checking out. 

Saturday, 02 October 2010 20:39

Basics on Talking Dirty

Written by Administrator

I was trying to find something to write about that would be interesting for everyone.  I always find it funny that people have a hard time talking about their fantasies to their partners.  So here are a few tips to help with that.  There was this great article on About.com that covers the topic well. 

  1. Be authentic in your dirty talk.
    Dirty talk can feel silly if you expect it to be what you’ve seen in the movies. You might have this idea that dirty talk is something specific. But good dirty talk is completely what you make it, and to do it well, you have to be yourself. While you may take on a role in your dirty talk (e.g. the ravished submissive) you need to find something of yourself in the role. Make a list of different aspects of your personality you can draw on for inspiration.
  2. Find your dirty talk voice.
    You need to find your own way of talking dirty. Your dirty talk might be low rhythmic grunts, high pitched squeals, or precise whispers. It might reflect the way you talk in your daily life, or it might express a different aspect of your personality. You don’t need to pick only one voice, the element of surprise can add an extra sense of anticipation, when your partner doesn’t know what they’re going to get an earful of next!
  3. Expand your dirty talk vocabulary.
    Most of us are raised not to swear. Dirty talk is your opportunity to pull out all the stops on the foul mouth express. Unless you’re role playing calls for it, avoid clinical terms (like penis). If you’re at a loss, do some research. Both of the books recommended below have lists of words. But you can do research online, by reading some raunchy erotica, or in some cases watching porn (although the dirty talk in porn tends to be unimaginative).
  4. Practice dirty talk when you're alone.
    Carol Queen, author of the highly recommended Exhibitionism for the Shy , suggests starting on your own, talking dirty while you masturbate. Fantasize about having sex with your partner and talking dirty to them. You can start by doing it in your head, but eventually do it out loud.
  5. Establish ground rules with your partner.
    One of the reasons many of us don’t talk dirty is fear of sounding ridiculous, or being put down or rejected by a partner. It’s important to set some rules when you’re willing to take risks like this. Rules like no laughing at one another, and no judgment are important. In the heat of the moment anything can come out of your mouth, and you need to know that your partner is respectful of the ways that can be exposing.
  6. Start slow the first time.
    Don’t feel you have to rush right into elaborate verbal gymnastics. A great way to start with dirty talk is to describe out loud what is happening during sex. Things like “I love the way your hand feels in my….” Or “Your …feels so good on/in my…” Describe what’s happening and how it feels in your body. You can also experiment by telling your partner something you’re going to do to them, or something you want them to do to you.
  7. Experiment with your voice.
    Most of us take for granted all the different things we can do with our voice, and the impact these changes have. Experiment with speed, how fast you talk. Some things call for a staccato barrage, while some things are best said slowly. Change the volume of your voice, try whispering, try screaming, try everything in the middle. Also play with the tenor of your voice. You can sound commanding and harsh, trembling and uncertain, and everywhere in between.
  8. Make dirty talking a two way conversation.
    Once you’ve taken the risk and initiated talking dirty with your partner, ask them to do the same. It isn’t for everyone, and you might find that you like doing it more than hearing it (or vice versa). But being on the receiving and the giving end of dirty talk can give you a different perspective on it, plus you may learn a few things from your partner you didn’t already know.
Friday, 24 September 2010 21:32

General Tips for Bondage

Written by Administrator

The following hints are about sucessful bondage.  Don't be stupid and play safe... REMEMBER SAFE WORDS!!!

For tops:

  • Be competent, confident and decisive about what you are doing. Be familiar with your tools and technique. Of course there will be occassions when you are using something for the first time on someone else but try to keep the number of new things you introduce to a minimum and do as much as you can to familiarise yourself with the technique or item first. Fumbling too much with bondage is boring and isn't going to inspire confidence in you.
  • Be aware of what you want to achieve and avoid unintended effects. Make sure things aren't pinching where they're not supposed to, for example.
  • Think about what you are doing in the context of the whole scene. If the kind of bondage you use prevents a certain activity you may want to engage in later on, you'll either have to avoid that activity or interrupt the scene to remove or modify the bondage.
  • Use only as much bondage as is necessary in the particular scene. Don't waste time and energy doing things that aren't appreciated.
  • Make sure you know how to remove the bondage before you put it on. This isn't only important for safety but also helps the smooth running of the scene.
  • Make sure the bondage is strong and secure enough for the job in hand, even if safety doesn't depend on it -- bondage breaking or coming undone in the middle of a scene is one of the most irritating distractions in SM!

And for bottoms...

  • Be especially clear about the kind of bondage you want and expect, and honest about how much you struggle and attempt to escape and how much you want that to be prevented.
  • Remember it's not always easy for tops to know how the bondage feels, and don't be afraid to alert them to potential problems, such as pinched skin or unexpected discomfort, as soon as you notice them: if that chafing buckle is irritating you now, don't kid yourself it will get better, because the opposite is more likely to be true, and interrupting the scene at a later stage will be much more frustrating for both of you.

http://public.diversity.org.uk/deviant/fsbdgprc.htm#General

Thursday, 23 September 2010 20:43

How To Put on A Condom With Your Mouth

Written by Administrator

I was going to make some comment about this but it is not really necessary.  This is one of the greatest tricks that a person can master.  This should be useless talent #1 (only it is not that useless).

  • Use a non-lubricated or flavored condom.
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  • Open the condom carefully, try not to tear it.
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  • Put the condom in your mouth with the reservoir tip pointing toward your throat, and the ring of the condom in front of your teeth.
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  • Press the reservoir tip with your tongue against the roof of your mouth, you want to keep the air out of the tip as the condom is going on.
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  • You can put a bit of lubricant on your partners penis for extra sensitivity.
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  • Take one or both of your hands and wrap them around the base of your partner's penis to keep it hard and straight.  If he is uncircumsized make sure to pull the foreskin back.
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  • Lower your head and put a condom on the tip of the penis.  Make sure you have the reservoir tip squeezed with your tongue against the head of the penis

  • Use your lips to roll the condom down the shaft.  Use the flat parts for guidance do not bite down on tear the condoms with your teeth.

 

Center for Disease Control
www.cdc.gov
800-311-3435

 

Planned Parenthood
www.plannedparenthood.org
800-230-PLAN

Talk about having a nooner!!!  Sex at work can be great, but not when you work at a school (it just seems a little wrong and not in that good way).  You couldn't wait until school was out or somthing.  I love it!!!

AUGUSTA, Ga. —  Several Richmond County educators are being reprimanded after officials uncovered a sex scandal involving teachers, coaches and the principal of an Augusta middle school.

Superintendent Dana Bedden says seven Spirit Creek Middle School faculty members have been implicated in a series of incidents that included daytime sexual encounters on an inflatable mattress in the school's public safety office.

No students were involved in any of the encounters, which came to light after a former teacher sent an e-mail about the allegations to school system leaders.

Denise Ogden resigned in November after her involvement in a love triangle that also cost former Principal Sharon McAlevy and former school board public safety officer Ronnie Collins their jobs.

www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,465064,00.html

Thursday, 23 September 2010 09:22

SEX for a week Church Mandate

Written by Administrator

Greatest Story EVER!!!

Dallas Rev. Ed young wants married couples to have sex all week long starting this Sunday. Here is his reasoning…

In these days of financial crisis, rampant divorce and debates over same-sex marriage, it's time, he says, to turn the "whining" into "whoopee."

More fundamentally, he adds, the embracing of sex is about nurturing and strengthening marriages.

"Sex is like Super Glue. It's a spiritual thing, an emotional thing," he says.

This isn’t some publicity stunt either. The Grapevine- based Fellowship Church has over 20,000 worshippers and video streams services from Grapevine to churches in downtown Dallas, Plano, Fort Worth and Miami.

I think this is a great idea and people should be having more sex (it relieves stress). Besides with the economy being the way it is soon the only thing your will be able to do is fornicate.

Wednesday, 22 September 2010 21:19

BJ Competition Cock-Blocked

Written by Administrator

Nine British Women, 6 Greek men, 6 British men, and a partridge and a pear tree were busted in a rousing game of knob gobblin’ in the Greek Isles.  The men were charged with encouraging obscene behavior and the women are being charged with prostitution.  Now the only question I have is how the hell did they get caught??? 

12 men – 9 women to please them= 3 pissed off men

first round eliminations = 3 f*ing snitches

13,000 male onlookers+ 1 jealous wife= jail time for the winners (what a buzz kill).

 

www.reuters.com/article/newsOne/idUSN1441724120080714

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